Monday, 17 October 2011

It is OK to Say No ི♥ྀ

“When I say yes to others make sure I am not saying no to myself.”
Let my "Yes" be clear and authentic".
Let my "No" be clear and confident" and "no" is OK


Once I take the trash out I don’t bring it back in - 
I am as Eco-friendly as the next person, 
but there is no way I'm going to recycle the old beliefs, habits and resentments that no longer serve me. 
Put all that mental clutter in a garbage bag, take it to the curb and then leave it there!

I am a strong woman, 
but every now and then I’d like someone to take my hand and tell me everything will be alright… Yasmin

Tuesday, 11 October 2011

New England - Fall Foliage in New Hampshire

October was my favorite time in New England, the smell of wood burning, apple picking, the Deerfield fair and the crispness of the chill the autumn air gave; but a tease before the oncoming blast of winter that I always dreaded.

Autumn's shorter days, and crisp chill cause leaves to change color to a vibrant coloration's and then drop (fall) which provides the perfect backdrop for a color show in New England.

 A little geography here for my Aussie friends… New England is the term used to describe the six northeastern states in the US; Maine, New Hampshire, Vermont, Massachusetts, Connecticut, and Rhode Island. They are bordered by Canada to the north, the Atlantic Ocean on the east and New York and New York City to the south and west; these six states make up a region that is rich in history and recreation... but the autumn in my opinion is the most breathtaking of the region.

Foliage season begins in mid-to-late September and ends in mid-to-late October. Peak color often coincides with Columbus Day weekend. Some years, the days would pass with little change, and then overnight all the trees seemed to explode with colors so beautiful you could easily wonder if the leaves were real. Other years, the color built steadily to a crescendo, changing each day. Weather plays an important part in the process, but with so many variables, no one can truly predict how brilliant the foliage will be in any given year, so with each fall never being the same as the last, I was always surrounded by a seemingly endless and changing canvas of brilliant autumn colors.

I was enchanted with the peak season of "Fall", when "the trees burst into colors, they seemed to wear magical coats of crimson, gold, and scarlet; dry leaves crunch underfoot; and every farm stand showed off their baskets of apples, piles of fat orange pumpkins, flat hay bails and hardy flowers. Sometime I was lucky enough to come across an apple-cider press. Have you ever had cold freshly squeezed cider, how about hot-spiced apple cider? Mmmm really it goes hand in hand with autumn, like apple picking, pies, county Fairs, farmers markets, bonfires, hayrides and Halloween. My door step was decorated for the season with pumpkins, chrysanthemums along with dried corn stalks or fake scarecrows, but that’s another story.
NH can easily be broken down into regions; you've got the White Mountains, the Great North Woods, Lake Sunapee, Dartmouth, the Lakes Region, Monadnock and the Merrimac Valley, and the New Hampshire Seacoast where I lived. I could go in any direction but I enjoyed traveling an hour or so up north to be one of the “leaf Peepers” of the scenic Kancamagus Highway, the road steadily climbs into the White Mountains as the flaming colors unfold along the peaks, ridges and valleys like a colorful granny square afghan, then it slowly winds back down the other side through some more postcard scenery. The heavily wooded river banks, lakes and water ways like Lake Winnipesaukee becomes a mirror with reflections, mimicking the autumn palette around its shores.
Whilst the flaming colors unfold along the peaks, ridges and valleys like a colorful granny square afghan then it slowly winds back down through some more postcard scenery. The heavily wooded river banks, lakes and water-ways like Lake Winnipesaukee become a mirror with reflections, the autumn palette around its shores.

To see the bucolic rural scenery more usually associated with New England all I had to do was stand in my own yard to command a panoramic view of the surrounding trees. Or trek along the picturesque back roads with white picket fences to Canterbury Shaker Village near Concord, where the trees were packed tightly to give an equally awe-inspiring experience as of any "Currier and Ives" painting.
Now I have the autumn memories, like the seasons "we" also change!
*♥*Yasmin*♥*

I was recently asked if I have returned to the States. No! I now live in Australia. This piece of writing came because I was remembering the fall's beauty of New Hampshire. I penned it down for me... so that I would never Forget it's majestic beauty.
That season of my life has gone, I now have other seasons to enjoy here in AU and to write memories, like the splendid autumns of my yesteryear's.~ Yasmin

Monday, 10 October 2011

New Hampshire's, fall means an explosion of autumn colors

This time last year my sister Sue was sitting on this same house step as I am currently sitting, at that time we were having a long distant phone call and today I was reminded of that day and an autumn in NH.

In reflection of the season it occurred to me we also have seasons and now mine is again changing.

I have been very busy these last few weeks, working on classes, sittings in classes and getting everything in place to teach a class. For the moment I still have a lot to do before I stand in-front of a classroom again. I am excited with this new endeavor ~ being a boat license instructor; I guess the teacher in me never left.

It’s a comfortable 70°F/19°C Spring. Today I woke with the rain not falling as it has been, instead the sun gives a promise to a pleasant day. The season takes place in the months of September, October and November it’s the time when Australia is full of blossoming flowers and heaps of life. I am seeing Newcastle come alive again. My Dad, Sue and I join the locals fill up the downtown parks on lunch breaks, and with friends throughout the weekends. Outdoor activities are again becoming the norm on just about any given day of the week. Spring is a time that everyone loves all around the world, but here it is extra special as it marks the return to the beaches.

Today I sat on the back step of the house, a light shawl flippantly flung around my shoulders; just enough to keep the slight chill away, Extra warmth came from the coffee cup in my hands, and the laptop I balanced on my legs as I spoke to three of my grandchildren. It was early Sunday morning here and Saturday evening over there.  The cousins were together having a sleep over, a perfect time for me to talk to them together.

I watched as my granddaughters squirmed to find the best position for our video talk; I had to laugh when my youngest decided to bend over the top of the laptop as if she could see right through to me. They had just gotten out of their baths, their hair slightly damp and already in their pajamas, the girls were excited as they frantically went into great depth telling me about having pizza for dinner and later on they were going to make popcorn for their planned movie night. the youngest couldn't grasp the idea that I was just getting up while they now were getting ready for bed. My grandson joined in with the normal school, homework chit chat. My precious granddaughters’ found they could sing in unison so I heard a song a few times over. They reminded me it is autumn in NH and they told me their Halloween plans and all that fall brings.

I was hoping that the question I always get during these calls would not be asked this time but I did get it again, “Was I coming back?” And as usual my answer was hard to reply. “No I would be staying here, but you are only 10 inches from my nose on the screen, remember to put your palm to your cheek there you’ll get my kiss that I put there when we were together, you may not be in my arms but you are always in my heart.”

The video call went well with an assurance that they would draw me a picture. Their call got me thinking and writing for the rest of the morning.
My Darling Granddaughters and Grandson,
A part of you has grown from me
'G' you were given to me,
And so you see, it's you and me,
Together forever and never apart,
Maybe in distance, but never from my heart.
~GrandY~ *♥*

Sunday, 2 October 2011

A chain of love has been createdི♥ྀ.

A chain of love has been created with my grandchildren,

Linking the past, with the future.
No matter where you are.
This chain will never part.
You will always be in
My heart
GrandY
ི♥ྀ.


A chain of love has been created
No matter where I am.
The chain may lengthen
But the links will never part
Grandchildren