Like A Butterfly

Like a butterfly, I am growing and changing and finding my true colors in life.
I am finding my wings so I can fly soon and be on my way

Sometimes I don't appreciate how Big the Little things in life really are. 

I remember the small memories from when I was young like going to get ice-cream on a hot summer day with my grandfather and twin brother, or some other kind of memory that brought me joy that is small, but has had a greater effect on my life than I really knew. These days I just take time out to enjoy the small things in life like the smell of fresh coffee brewing in the morning.

The little things in life are what connect me to the bigger things in life. 

A simple daily hug to a grandchild or a friend may not seem that huge every day, but when they are gone just the memory of this embrace can be a fulfilling memory that will make me smile. I never underestimate doing the little things, and make sure that I go out of my way to do them because I will reap the rewards for doing so for the rest of my life. I will enjoy the little things in life, for one day I may look back and realize they were the big things.

Nonflexible Concept

¸¸.•*¨*• LOVE MYSELF....
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Change was a very inflexible concept; I was just living the years.
Not realizing change was a constant, something I had no control,
When I resisted, things had a way of repeating themselves.
I gave my children a solid footing to follow their own road.
I hung on to a man, a place, a life that did not fulfill me.
Challenges put upon me helped me to move forward,
I took the steps towards change and I welcome it
into my new world. I now make my own choices
I knew if I kept on doing the same old things
I would continue to get the same old results
I chose to travel towards another path
to walk alone for a little while
to find my own way Home
to Love myself again
I am worth it.
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Nonflexible concept

My life is a garden,
and unless I remove the weeds,
and tend to it with love how will it flourish..

Gift of a Compliment

The gift of a compliment to another may seem as an incidental gesture, but could have great impact on the recipient, whether it bestowed upon a loved one, friend or a complete stranger. 

I find it odd, that for some, giving compliments is not an easy task and that they actually struggle with it. When I give out compliments freely, I in turn brighten my own life. 

I feel as though a little bit of good has been done, for I have put a smile on someone else's face. 

That may be the only compliment or smile she or he has gotten that day or just needed it at that moment. 

When the opportunity for complimenting someone arises, don't shy away. 

Instead, preform this act of kindness with a great big smile. Feel free to be complimentary.

Embracing Change In My Life

6 Nov, 2011
“Today is the day I choose to let go and release all the things that are causing me pain in my life
And stopping me from moving forward!
It's time to rise above everything that is bringing me down!
I can and I will make a difference in my life!"

♥ Never Let A Fool Kiss You Or A Kiss Fool You ♥

Falling in love with a fool is in reality not very hard to avoid. In order to avoid this we have to first avoid being a fool for love ourselves. We must make sure that what we are doing is right. Sometimes we rush to a quick judgment when it comes to falling in love, and choosing a lover, just because we are in love with the idea of being in love.

I must recognize this when I again choose a lifelong partner, I should be choosing a partner that I will be able to grow with for the rest of my life, and not because he seem good enough for the present. I will choose someone with the qualities and traits that show me in the beginning of the relationship that he will be good for me, will help me grow, and will treat me as I should be treated, with a tremendous amount of care. Allow my heart to lead the way.